Reason, Season or Lifetime?

Judas Iscariot was chosen by Yahshuwah (Jesus) Himself, and yet betrayed Him to death. Not everyone that God sends into your life will bless you; some will propel you to purpose through persecution. Persecution doesn’t mean that someone was not sent, it’s simply proof they were never meant to stay.

“Sent by God, but used by satan — Understand People’s Purpose In Your Life!”


~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 03/29/2014

Annual Heartbreak Day


It’s finally over…

Millions around the world call it Valentines Day. It is a day that is set aside to honor and celebrate the special one you love — and for the special one you love to celebrate you. Everywhere you turn, there are roadside stands full of beautiful flowers and gifts. Every store greets you with displays of chocolates and balloons. The media is littered with romantic jewelry ads; engagement ring ads being the worse offenders. Restaurants, concerts and hotels are booked to capacity, as couples celebrate having each other. Those fortunate enough to have someone to share this special day with, brim with excitement at the thought of the romance and love the energy of this day produces.

However, for many others, what some know as “Valentines Day” — is actually “Annual Heartbreak Day”.  While all of the attention surrounding this day produces sweet enthusiasm in the those who have someone to celebrate it with, it produces only painful heartache in others. For me, “Annual Heartbreak Day” is a bitter reminder of all of the unrequited love that I have rendered over the years. It is the taunting chant of the voice of abandonment. It is the agonizing realization and piercing awareness of my very aloneness.

This week leading up to Heartbreak Day, I had struggled terribly — to the point where I had to fight off three random panic attacks that came on, as I saw loving couples during my daily errands. I have been having a wonderful year. It has been one of the best years of my life. And yet I know that often times with me, a trigger like this can knock me off the path of my destiny and cause months of delay.

I have made so much progress this year and I know that during this time of redemption, I cannot afford to let the enemy use anything to take me down! The key to my overcoming was in sharing my heart out of my own brokenness. Thursday night and last night (Valentines night) in the midst of my own pain, I gave everything that I have to other people who were in pain. While I cried a river of tears inside, I caused others to be full of joy, hope and encouragement.

It has been four years since my marriage ended. Leaving that marriage, I never once looked back in regret. It was a prison of neglect and resentment. However, I never thought or could have imagined, standing before the judge on the day of my divorce that all these years later, I would still be a single woman. I have loved so many people, with so much passion and humility and  honor over the years. Excluding my children, I can’t say that anyone has ever fully reciprocated the love that I’ve given them, and that was especially the case with my ex-husband.

Yet, I have never been bitter or cynical about remarrying. Quite to the contrary, I have always believed the second time around would come quickly and restore my torn heart. But now, 4 years later, I have not been so hopeful. I do greatly treasure my position in the Body of Christ. I am so thankful that I have such value to the Kingdom. I know undoubtedly that I am a Mighty Woman of God. Yet in the natural, as a woman, I question my worth. I wonder why no man has ever claimed me as his special reward and made me his Queen.

I want more than anything, a chance to share the overwhelming wifely love and anointing that is ever brimming in my heart, but a man who truly loves, cherishes and honors me has remained elusive. I have only ever been used by men for their purposes of pleasure and advancement. And even those that I thought loved me, have proven in the end that they only loved the “idea of being with Dr. Intimacy”, but not the woman she operates through.

And yet, the victory is mine this morning. I woke up a virtuous woman whose worth is far above that of precious rubies. Instead of taking the love that The Father has placed in my heart and burying it; instead of saying, “until someone loves me, I can’t love anyone else”; instead of compromising my integrity and standards of righteousness, for the sake of falsely comforting my broken heart on one insignificant day created by the world – I shared my love freely, I overcame bitterness by blessing others and I stood in my righteousness and integrity.

Because I gave, more than two dozen people woke up this morning encouraged and happy and knowing that they are loved. Because I decided that even if no man finds me worth it, I still find others worth it. Even if I can’t receive the love I desire, I can still give someone else what they desire. So while there was no one here to keep  me warm last night and whisper sweet love into my ear, the images of loving others and the joy that they received warmed my heart. The hope of reaping a harvest kept my tears away.  And The Love and Approval of My Savior encouraged me to know that it’s always worth it to love and serve others.

Maybe this time next year, I will be waking up next to my new husband. However if not, I will wake up thinking about whoever it is that I shared The Love of The Father with the night before, and my pillow will not be soaked with tears, as in years past. So if like me, Valentines Day is actually Annual Heartbreak Day for you — I say to you, “keep your love in shape”. Go exercise the love you plan to give in a beautiful, Godly marriage one day. Go practice the service that you plan to one day give to your spouse. Stay focused on the love you can give to others, and before you know it, your tears will turn into joy!!!

In the power of His Love,

Prophetess Laneen “Dr. Intimacy” Haniah

I’m Healed, Therefore I’m Better

Healed eyes see differently. Healed ears hear differently. A healed heart perceives differently. And a healed mind understands what was once so perplexing.

#I’mHealed #I’mDifferent #I’mBetter

~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 01/20/2014

UNEXPECTED MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Shortly before Christmas, I was unjustly fired from my job. But The Lord told me to be still and He would take care of me. I didn’t know where the money was coming from, but I knew He would provide.

Well, tonight I was trying to change bank cards for one of my automatic payments because I didn’t have enough funds ($74.50) on the card that the payment was assigned to. Payment is due on the 10th, which is today, and I was kind of stressing out because I meant to change the card before midnight hit.

It seemed like the payment had already gone through, and I figured I probably would have an overdraft fee. So, I went to my On-line banking site and did a double-triple take when I saw over $3,300 of UNEXPECTED MONEY in my account!

I thought perhaps my tax refund had hit my account early, but I knew that was not possible because I haven’t even filed yet! When I discovered where the money had come from, it was even more of a shock. I had received a letter from an agency several months ago, saying that I owed them almost $7,000, which would be deducted from my tax refund. Not only did I not pay them a dime, they ended up paying me $3,354.00!!!!! I guess that $74.50 is covered after all, HA!

Down Payment Direct Deposit on my year of Dreams – 2014!!!!

#YearOfDreams #ImRegistered

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~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 01/10/2014

Bible Insights, Matthew Chapter 5:23-24

Matthew Chapter 5:23-24 

 “23 So if you are offering your gift at the Temple altar and you remember there that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift where it is by the altar, and go, make peace with your brother. Then come back and offer your gift.”

The burden of reconciliation and peace IS ON YOU, when you are made aware of something that someone has against you! It is by NO coincidence that reconciliation is directly linked to your giving. While it is true that not everyone will respond favorably to your efforts to make peace with them, your tithes and offerings are as worthless as ashes if you DO NOT MAKE EVERY EFFORT to seek the forgiveness of those you have offended!

OUCH, that gives me a totally different perspective on financial prosperity! Of course, there is always the option to pursue material wealth through the world’s system, in which case reconciliation is not a requirement. However, if we are going to seek to INHERIT wealth from The Kingdom of Heaven, we must give tithes and offerings, which we learn through this scripture, are null and void without appropriate steps taken toward reconciliation. And the most important part of this scripture is the clause that says, “if a brother has something against you“. This text is not about you “passively forgiving” someone who has hurt you. This is about you going to SEEK OUT those that you have offended or sinned against, when you have knowledge that they have not forgiven you, and you have never authentically and fully attempted to make it right. This is a very deliberate and calculated decision to face the rejection and/or persecution of someone who you know has an issue with you and perhaps even a hatred for you. THIS IS SOOO HEAVY!!!


~ Bible Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 01/03/2014

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Only Up From Here, You Say?

You think you’ve hit rock bottom? You better think twice before setting your mouth to complain or letting pride set you up for a fall because GOD knows how to show you where the floor really is!!!


~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 01/02/2014

Let’s Study the Bible Together!

As we journey through YHWH’s Word in 2014, please know that you will only get out of it, what you sow into it. I spent 2 hours studying the assigned chapters for today, and I received 7 pages of notes and revelation. How much time did you spend in His Word today? How many nuggets of insight did you receive? How much of it was important enough to you to actually take the time to write it down?  It’s not too late to join in with me and The Bible Insights Fellowship group and read and study with us! There is strength in unity. Why study by yourself, when we can all sharpen each other?

Please go to the blog and register and then send me your username or login email address so I can add you as a follower or  contributor.

In the Power of His Love,

Dr. Intimacy, In the year of DREAMS!

Remorse vs. Repentance: Start Your Year Off Right!!!

Feeling sorry for the outcome, does not equate taking accountability for the actions that caused it. The countdown to the new year has passed, and the excitement of that first moment is fading. Whether or not crossing the threshold into 2014 is going to also mean crossing the threshold into a new season, is completely predicated on the depth of your repentance (complete turning away) from all of your rebellion in 2013.

Happy New Year and Happy New Life to all of you determined to lay aside every weight and sin that so easily beset you in 2013: To those of you who deleted numbers from your phone, got rid of bad habits, overcame addictions, moved away from dead activities and dead relationships, took control of your desires, pulled out all roots of bitterness, and completely committed yourself to the Will of YHWH God for your life!

To the rest of you, all I can say is, “I wouldn’t want to be you!” because I can’t wish a Happy New Year to someone who has already decided to be miserable by default! The wages of sin is death, and death brings mourning. Thus, to choose rebellion and stubbornness, is to choose misery.  I’m not sugar-coating it because I hope this dose of truth is enough to get you to take care of what you need to take care of in the first days of 2014 (not months, or weeks, but DAYS), in order to start, not just a New Year, but also a NEW SEASON!!!

If you don’t like the results you got in 2013, remember that to get different results in 2014, means taking different actions!

Same actions, Same results — New actions, New season!


Apostolic Blessings and Favor to all of those who have properly positioned themselves for 2014 to be the year of Dreams!!!

~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 01/01/2014

Watch “2014 — The Year of Dreams: Are You Registered?” on YouTube

If you had a tough year in 2013, you definitely want to watch this because 2014 is going to make you forget all your pain!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR AND HAPPY NEW LIFE to all of my friends and followers. I can’t wait to hear all of the wonderful testimonies that 2014 brings forth! Enjoy…

Join Me for New Year’s Eve

I’ll be shouting in the New Year at Lone Star Baptist Church tomorrow night! Watch night service begins at 10:30pm and I will be the closing speaker for the service. If you’re not locked in anywhere else, come join us!!!

323 W. Main Street, Dallas, TX

Maybe I will see you there!

Let Him Have Control

The leading and guiding of The Spirit of God amazes me. I started and completed something today that was not even in my plans until today! I love His voice!

The steps of a just person are ordered by the Lord. Stay in control of my life Ruach HaKodesh. You never lead me wrong…

~ Insights from Dr. Intimacy ~ © 12/29/2013

Do you want to really dig into the Bible in 2014?


This morning I had a random unction to start a group bible study, and all throughout the day Holy Spirit has defined the details of the plan. I have now set up a group FB page and a blog for, whosoever will, to join us in an in-depth, revelatory, prophetic, study with The Bible Insights Fellowship. The best part is that the Holy Spirit will be our Teacher, speaking through whoever makes themselves available! That’s right, everyone has a voice in this fellowship. Please check out the pages and if you feel so inclined, join in with us.  You will get more detailed info at the links below. This is a great way to connect with me for those that have been trying to get in touch. I don’t play when it comes to The Word! LOL

In His Love,

Dr. Intimacy