This Is My Story… The Testimony of Dr. Intimacy

Happy New Year to all of my readers and subbies! I pray that this short video will encourage you to overcome all in 2013 and pursue greatness – NO MATTER WHAT!!!

In the Power of LOVE,

Dr. Intimacy

Jesus is NOT my husband, or yours!

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OK, let’s just clear something up today. When the scriptures refers to The Church as the “bride of Christ”, that is a reference to the collective body of Believers. The true meaning of this scripture can be found all the way back in Genesis 2:24,

“This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” 

Remember that Messiah is referred to as the second Adam and the ultimate purpose of His return, is that at the end of life on earth, we can return to being one with Him. That is why He said in heaven we will neither marry, nor be given in marriage. However, the marriage between Christ and His bride cannot take place until we shed these corrupt bodies of flesh and put on our new heavenly bodies when in a moment we shall be changed and be like Him!. Once we become like Him, finally we will be prepared for that beautiful marriage as One Body of Believers with our One True Husband… and what a glorious day that will be, Hallelujah!!!

Nevertheless, marriage between humans is for the earth and for the flesh. THERE IS ONE THING AND ONE THING ONLY that separates the marriage relationship from every other relationship – SEX. The blood covenant bond created through sexual intercourse is the one and only thing that sets the marriage relationship apart. This is a right and a privilege that can only be blessed and spiritually legal when shared between a man and woman committed to each other in monogamy for life.

Having said that, when someone says “I need/want a husband, or I need/want a wife” please DO NOT respond with “Jesus is your husband or Jesus is all you need.” If you do, you are just being DSI (Deep, Spooky and Ignorant)! If Jesus can’t literally lay in your bed and physically and sexually penetrate you, then He cannot be your husband or wife! Consummation of a marriage on earth requires the blood covenant of physical intercourse, so please…


~REAL TALK from Dr. Intimacy~ © 12/18/2012

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People often ask me questions about how to experience true deliverance. Sometimes deliverance can seem like an elusive mystery, or unattainable goal. Yet, I have learned on my own quest for deliverance that the shortest distance from where I am to the deliverance that I need, is the measure of distance between my face and the floor! There is no surer and more thorough way to receive an authentic breakthrough than to break free in intimacy with the LORD.

Worship is intimacy with The Father – it is pure, mind-blowing, flesh-numbing, over-powering, over-flowing, gushing, explosive intimacy. Real intimacy with your Creator is what brings about true deliverance. Prayer changes things, but intimacy transforms you. When something changes, it can always change back. Change is only temporary, but transformation is everlasting!

Your true deliverance is in the intimacy of worship, in the intimate oneness of time in His presence where there is transformation. Once He transforms you, you can never go back to being what you once were. You cannot stay bound, you cannot stay chained. You cannot remain the same when you are really touched by Yahweh God in your intimate places! It is like a virgin that will never be the same once touched; it is impossible to be what you used to be after The Lover of Your Soul touches you.

When you finally become intimate with Him and allow Him to penetrate your spirit and impregnate you, YOU WILL NOT BE THE SAME. This very truth that I am stating is why part 4 of the Understanding Intimacy series, is MY FAVORITE article on this blog. If I were you, I would read it over and over and over again. I would print it out and post it around me. I would post it on my social media networks and even write a daily decree based on this revelation of intimacy with Yahweh.

Why do I say this? Why do I feel so strongly about it? Because the moment you forget it, defeat sets in. The moment you allow yourself to believe that true deliverance can come by any other means, is the moment the enemy has a back door entrance to steal, kill and destroy your purpose in life. I know this all too well and too personally. I had been “away” for a while, off the scene where no one could find me. And to be totally honest with you, I disappeared because I just didn’t feel worthy of this call on my life.

I had been fighting a battle for a long time, questioning my worth to The Body of Christ and even as a human being. The more I pressed in to be a blessing to the people Yahweh has assigned me to, the further away I seemed to get from actually fulfilling my purpose. But The Word of The Lord came to me one night as I worshiped, and by His Word I was made clean… I was made whole… I was made aware once again that the battle is not mine, it is The LORD’s! But the only way to turn the battle over to Him and stop trying to fight it myself was through the oneness of intimate worship.

 I know why the enemy wants my hands to stay still from typing and my mouth shut from speaking, but I declare that I will not be still, nor will I be silent! My assignment is not to teach people about sex, or to deal with people’s sexual issues. The topics that are addressed in this ministry platform are necessary discussions, but only because such issues often steal from us the privilege to worship Our Creator freely. So go for yours! Go after your total deliverance in His intimate presence. That is what I did. I worshiped in pure intimacy and broke free. BREAK FREE in His presence!

Your deliverance is in Intimacy with God. True and lasting deliverance is in the transformation that happens when you BEAK FREE in intimacy, pure worship intimacy…

In the Power of Love,

Dr. Intimacy

Prolific Author and Speaker Specializing in Sex, Intimacy and Worship from a Holistic Perspective – Spirit, Soul & Body

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The Conception of Dr. Intimacy – The Powerful Testimony of My Conversion

Wow it blew me away recording the powerful testimony of my life and conversion! Let us never forget where He has brought us from!

~Dr. Intimacy~

Will You Kiss God In Public?

While sitting in Panera tonight working on a project, there was a couple seated directly in front of me that were very much enjoying one another’s company. They shamelessly showed their affection by nuzzling, kissing, hugging, feeding each other, etc… They were so overt in their display that I was a little embarrassed. I tried not to look at them but it was so hard because they were just a few feet away. Every so often as I glanced at their exchanges, I noted that they were completely oblivious of me, or anyone else in that place.

I went on with my work, listening to worship music on my headphones when one of my favorite worship songs came on. Suddenly I had an overwhelming urge to worship. I struggled to restrain myself from lifting my hands and praising. Then I heard a voice in my spirit say, “Will you not kiss me in public? Am I not worthy of the same public display of affection that this couple has shown one another?” With these words I was blown away and released! Following the example of the love birds seated in front of me, I began to shamelessly show my affection for my Heavenly Lover. I lifted my hands, and I sang and praised and cried and smiled and… I was completely oblivious to anyone else in that place!

Then the couple got up to leave, and I can only imagine that they were on their way somewhere that they could finish what they had started. And this is what I have to say to you:

#If you will kiss God in public, He will blow your mind when you get home!

~Insights from Dr. Intimacy~ © 12/10/2012

ANOTHER Vessel: Something Different Than Before!

There came a time in my life that I was so flawed as a Believer that I had to be remade. In Jer 18:4 it reads,

“And the vessel that he was making from clay was spoiled in the hand of the potter; so he made it over, reworking it into another vessel as it seemed good to the potter to make it…”

If you understand anything about working with clay,  you know that once the clay is formed into any particular shape or vessel, the only way to “make it over” is to completely demolish its current form. There came a point in my life where everything I knew of my life was demolished. I lost everything that shaped my identity in less than a year’s time. Everything that I thought I knew about God, theology, the Bible and my calling was challenged so much so that I had to completely let go of my entire foundation.

I felt like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, my whole life was swooped up by a tornado and dropped off in some “strange land”. As YHWH began to restore my life, He didn’t put it back together the way it was before. He formed it into something different. Nothing about me or my life is the way that it was before I was remade, but yet I am still me.If what I just described sounds like your life today, just know that you are being made into “another vessel”. Not the same one or even the same kind that was flawed, but something different, AS IT SEEMS GOOD to The Creator. YHWH God is Sovereign; this is what He decided whether you understand it or not. He is choosing what kind of vessel you will be in your remade form! And know this, even though the clay was made into a different kind of vessel, it was still the same piece of clay and its basic essence never changed.

In this season The Creator is taking the form of your true essence that has been irreparably flawed by life, and making it into something NEW. And I know it hurts when everything in your life is being crushed, pounded, rolled, tugged, shaped, chiselled, left out to dry and then burned with fire… But Go with it! Even though you and your life is being formed into something different from before, you are going to love the NEW YOU!

~Daily Insights from Dr. Intimacy~ © 12/04/2012

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Your Enemies Are Enjoying Your Promise!!!

YHWH was once ministering to me about a situation in which He had given me favor to “possess the promise” about 18 months prior, but because it was a very intimidating and unusual situation, I had yet to walk in my authority and claim and take what He in His sovereignty had chosen to give to me. He began to deal with me about the children of Israel and their wilderness experience. In Numbers 13: 27-28 it reads:

““We entered the land you sent us to explore, and it is indeed a bountiful country—a land flowing with milk and honey. Here is the kind of fruit it produces. 28 But the people living there are powerful, and their towns are large and fortified. We even saw giants there, the descendants of Anak!”

This was the report of the spies about the promised land they had scouted out – the land was wonderful, but there was an enemy occupying it. It dawned on me as I meditated on this that it could have taken as few as 11 days for the Israelites to travel from Egypt to the promised land, but instead they wandered in the wilderness for 40 years. We all know the story, but did you ever consider the fact that their enemies were enjoying their promise for those 40 years! While the Israelites slept in tents, faced harsh weather, suffered from thirst and hunger and wandered around like nomads, their enemies lived like royalty. Their enemies were enjoying life behind the walls of a fortified city, with grand houses, large bountiful crops, choice fruits, servants, beautiful country sides and an all-around top quality lifestyle!

Some of the things you are suffering through are self-imposed afflictions of fear! Some blessings The Father will simply “hand” to you, but then there are those things that He promises to you that you must fight for! What The LORD doesn’t give to you, He will give you the courage to possess, but it’s up to you to go in and claim it from the enemies that are currently occupying it.

Don’t spend a single day more living in the harshness of the wilderness, while your enemies enjoy your promise!

~Daily Insights from Dr. Intimacy~ © 12/01/2012

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