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8 thoughts on “1. Guest Book

  1. Hi Dr Intimacy thank you and the Lord for your wonderful website. I am glad I came across it.

    Let me tell you a bit about me, many years ago I used to masturbate a lot and used to sleep around. I believed in the Lord then but never followed his word which I truly regret. Before I met my wife I dated and slept with this female for a while but I would feel guilty about what I was doing. We ended up having a horrible break up. After a while I started dating my now wife and about a few months into our relationship me and my wife wanted to get close to God more. So we changed our ways.

    I repented all my sins, I stopped masturbating which I sometimes find very difficult (at times I have faulted, but I have managed 3 months without), Me and my wife also stopped making love. However, to this day I still struggle with lustful thoughts of woman but mostly my previous partner. This sometimes happens in the day but a lot more in my sleep in dreams. It is really horrible, I wake up feeling anxious and guilty, it brings on nausea, tummy cramps, I don’t like it. It makes me feel down. I do pray for help but i feel I am doing it wrongly.

    There are no issues with my marriage but I feel if I don’t resolve this I will have problems in the future, and I don’t want that. Please can you guide me on how I can over come this.

    Thank you so much for you help. God bless! 🙂

  2. andiecavie says:

    I am in somewhat a similar situation. I have been married for just over a year but I still think about a woman who was (and probably still is) very special to me.

    I was a real jack ass to her; and pushed her away because it felt like we were constantly bickering. I didn’t feel like I could make her happy, so I moved on and broke her heart. Big mistake! The truth is that she was probably the most influential, loving & supportive person in my life; and I learned how to be a better person from her.

    Even though I have moved on and am happily married, I regulary daydream about my previous partner and the awesome sex we use to have. These thoughts just creep up on me without warning.

    I too have prayed and prayed for these sexual thoughts to stop as they make me feel like I am being unfaithful to wife. I often wonder whether I rushed into my marriage and whether I made the right choice.

    Currently things are going well between my wife and I, but I am worried that the feelings I still have for my previous partner may destroy my marriage. I hope Dr Intimacy can guide us both. Good luck and God bless. You are not alone!

  3. Dr. Intimacy says:

    Terry and Andie, I responded to your question on my video blog! Check it out! How do you get over desire for a former partner when you are happily married? Is oral sex spoken of in the Bible? How can you show your wife in scripture that she should honor you and not nag you? All of these questions are addressed in this video. I recorded this video especially with Christian men in mind. I hope it blesses you. Enjoy!

  4. E. G. says:

    Dr. Intimacy, I’m a 16 year old Roman Catholic boy in Queens, New York City. I’m a homosexual. Not practicing anymore, but I used to. I’m suffering from attacks from these spirits and they’re consuming my focus in school, and are ruining my life. I rebuke them, I renounce them, I don’t want them. It’s been exactly a week since this has been going on. I know why it happened as well. December 12th, this guy I was talking to slept over and we messed around in the morning before school. That same day, my friend came to me for help with this situation that she was being harassed by this demon and she came to me for help. I said okay and way going to bring her to church, and I did. However on the bus ride there, while in the middle of a Rosary prayer, I felt that “Hightened Sexual Sensation” and it felt as if I was in the middle of intercourse. I also felt like I was twice as heavy. This feeling has gotten worse over the past week. I feel it with me now and I want to get rid of it. Help me, Dr. Intimacy, please.

    • Dr. Intimacy says:

      Hi E.G.

      You need to become a truly born again Believer in the True and Living God Yahshuawah Messiah (Jesus Christ), Be baptized in the name of the real Jesus (Yahshuwah) and filled with the Holy Spirit. As a practicing Roman Catholic, you have no in-filling of the Holy Spirit and your religion requires you to practice idol worship. Please purchase my book, The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook on http://www.drintimacy.com. While at my website, please also go to the “New Life Now” page and learn how to give your life to Jesus. Please email me. I am from Queens and can send you to a church where you can be properly baptized.

      In His Love,
      Dr. Intimacy

  5. CJ says:

    Dr. Intimacy
    Thank you for your obedience to God and your willingness to make your personal matters public so awareness and deliverance can take place in the life of others. I have read most of the articles you have posted and I also have purchased your book “Sexually Transmitted Demons.” My question for you is how to do I experience real deliverance from the sexual perversion in my life. I can stop masturbating for a couple of days but the urges are so strong that no matter what I do it is hard for me to resist. I watch porn and masturbate at least 4 to 5 times a day and I try to stop. I try to find other things to do but it’s like I cannot have any peace unless I watch porn and masturbate then I am good. I believe, well I know, this has cost me my pastorate and it almost cost me my marriage. About 3 years ago I resigned as pastor and nobody knew why. I was so ashamed that I even left my wife and my children for a year. My wife was a virgin when we got married and I think I have transferred this spirit to her. I asked her to watch porn with me. I asked her to have phone sex with me when I traveled. I baited her into conversations about threesomes and eventually we had one and now I think she struggles with a lesbian spirit because she always wants to have a threesome with a woman. And during sex she only has an orgasm when she calls out a female name or she will have me call out another female’s name we may know. I can see her as we have sex fantasizing about another person as she climax. We have had a threesome with a close friend of ours and she always initiates it. This spirit has overtaken my marriage and I have tried with everything in me to reel it back in and whatever I do fails. It seems like the harder I try the worst it gets. I had a growing church and helped a lot of people walk through the difficult stages of their life but I am living with this dark secret and I could not in good conscious pastor and know I was struggling with sexual perversion so I resigned. I am trying everything to stop with no success. I have read books, blogs. I have prayed and confessed. I tried playing sermons and worship music when the urges come. I have watched your youtube channel and if I may be honest I find myself lusting after you. I think to myself why am I like this? I do not want to be this way. I can help everyone else and help fix everybody else’s problems but when it comes to me I can’t experience the deliverance I preach and minister to others. I know Christ. I know the power of the Holy Spirit. I do not drink or do drugs. I am a person of integrity and influence within my community but I can’t shake this. I said this the thorn in my side but I can’t imagine God allowing this struggle that has the potential to affect and destroy so many be allowed in my life. I take my ministry seriously and the souls He has for me to care after. I would rather die than to not be able to serve God so this is literally killing me.
    Thank you for any help or insight you may offer.

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